I am in the process of learning about this program. I have a almost 2.5 year old son. I have been doing special time (with a timer) and staylistening. I have a hard time with playlistening. It does not come naturally to me, and when I have tried a few of the things listed he will like them for a short time and then be done with them. I do try to follow his lead. He hasn’t ever been a cuddly boy, but seems to be liking more as he gets older. So when I try some of the snuggly stuff he seems put off. In one of the phone calls they mentioned a book that has ideas. When my husband and I are trying to check in or talk, he has been biting, pinching, and hitting and throwing stuff and would like some help.