Thank you for you supportive answer. I read the articles and they are helpful indeed. I need more Listening Time and my son needs more Special Time, yet time is always always too short, it’s crazy. One sub-questions: I really have trouble accessing any feeling around his tone of voice. I talk to my LP, I tell her it gets on my nerve, but then that’s it. No memories of my own childhood, nothing. I just hate his voice, but I don’t feel anger or anything. Any ideas how to get around this? It’s happening a lot in my LT lately. I talk, but don’t feel any feelings. I just mention things.
Thanks again! And happy holidays!